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Selfie poses that actually work

Eight selfie poses you can hold without thinking: four at arm’s length, four in the mirror, and what to do with the free hand in each.

A woman with wavy hair in a yellow sundress leaning on a terrace wall above Positano, taking a selfie with the sea and the village behind her
4 min readGet these 8 poses in Fluence’d

Why selfies go wrong

Most bad selfies share one problem: the free hand has nowhere to go, so the whole body stiffens around the phone. The face tightens, the shoulders rise, and the photo reads as a photo being taken rather than a moment.

Every pose below gives that hand a job. Once it has one, the shoulders drop, the chin finds its angle and the expression relaxes on its own.

The first four are arm’s-length selfies: hold the phone a little above eye level, never below it. The last four are mirror selfies, where the phone is part of the picture and the whole outfit is in frame.

Selfie pose: chin rest
Selfie pose: hair touch
Selfie pose: crown rest
Selfie pose: top angle
Selfie pose: crown
Selfie pose: side
Selfie pose: lift
Selfie pose: drape

Chin rest

Make a loose fist and rest your chin on the knuckles, elbow tucked down toward your body, while the other arm holds the phone out at arm’s length.

The fist supports the chin rather than pushing it; keep the jaw soft so the face stays relaxed.

Tilt your head a few degrees toward the resting hand. Eyes to the lens, and let the smile come late.

The chin rest guide in the empty room, as Fluence’d shows itA woman with long blonde hair at a café window table in Lisbon, resting her chin on her fist, a yellow tram on the street behind herGuideShot

Hair touch

Slide the fingers of your free hand into the hair at the temple, as if pushing it back, and stop halfway.

Let the elbow open out to the side: the raised arm frames your face and gives the shot its shape. Keep the fingers loose rather than gripping.

A closed-mouth smile suits this one. Eyes to the lens, chin level.

The hair touch guide in the empty room, as Fluence’d shows itA woman with long copper-red hair on a Paris street, the Eiffel Tower behind her, fingers in her hair at the temple and the phone arm reaching toward the cameraGuideShot

Crown rest

Rest your free hand on top of your head, fingers in the hair, and let the elbow drop down beside you so the arm frames one side of your face.

Keep the hand light rather than pressing the hair flat.

Hold the phone a little higher than usual and look straight into the lens.

The crown rest guide in the empty room, as Fluence’d shows itA woman with long copper-red hair on a Paris street beside the Eiffel Tower, one hand resting on top of her headGuideShot

Top angle

Hold the phone up and out as far as your arm goes, above eye level, and angle the screen down toward you.

Tip your chin up slightly to meet the lens and let your free arm drop out of frame.

Look straight into the camera. From above, the eyes carry the frame.

The top angle guide in the empty room, as Fluence’d shows itA woman with shoulder-length wavy hair in a yellow sundress on a terrace above Positano, holding the phone up and out above eye level, the village and the sea belowGuideShot

Mirror crown

The first of four mirror selfies. Stand a step back from a full-length mirror, hold the phone in front of your face with one hand, and rest the other hand on top of your head.

Cross one ankle over the other so your weight settles on one leg. The raised elbow and the crossed feet give the full-length frame its line.

Keep the phone over part of your face, not all of it: one eye and your smile should stay in the reflection.

The mirror crown guide in the empty room, as Fluence’d shows itA mirror selfie of a woman with long black hair in a burgundy knit dress in a bright bedroom, the phone in front of her face and one hand on top of her headGuideShot

Mirror side

Turn your body side-on to the mirror, hold the phone at face height, and turn your head back toward the reflection.

Let the free arm hang relaxed at your side and put your weight on the back leg so the front knee softens.

The twist between shoulders and hips is the whole pose. Keep your chin level and look into the reflection.

The mirror side guide in the empty room, as Fluence’d shows itA mirror selfie of a woman with long black hair in a burgundy knit dress, standing side-on to the mirror in a bright bedroom with the phone at face heightGuideShot

Mirror lift

Hold the phone up at head height with your elbow bent, the screen facing the mirror, and let your other arm hang loose.

Tilt your head slightly toward the phone and step one foot forward. The small walk in the legs keeps the full-length frame from looking stiff.

A glance down toward the phone, rather than straight out, makes it read like a moment rather than a pose.

The mirror lift guide in the empty room, as Fluence’d shows itA mirror selfie of a woman with long honey-brown curls in a cobalt blue dress on a boutique shop floor, the phone held up at head heightGuideShot

Mirror drape

Hold the phone in front of your face so it half covers it, and drape your other arm over the top of your head.

Cross your legs at the ankle and let your weight fall onto one hip. The arm over the head and the crossed legs echo each other’s angles.

This is the one for when you do not want your face to lead the photo: the outfit and the shape do the talking.

The mirror drape guide in the empty room, as Fluence’d shows itA mirror selfie of a woman with long curls in a white knit dress in a hotel lobby, the phone covering her face and one arm draped over her headGuideShot

Take them into the app

Reading a pose is one thing; holding it while you also aim a phone is another. Fluence’d shows each of these eight as a translucent guide in your camera, so you line yourself up with the silhouette instead of remembering the instructions.

Open the pack below, pick a pose, and match the guide. When you are lined up, tap once.

  1. Open the pack in Fluence’d
  2. Pick a pose and see the guide in your camera
  3. Line yourself up with it and shoot

In the app

Shoot them, not guess them.

Every pose on this page is a guide in Fluence’d. Open the pack, line up, tap once.

Get these 8 poses in Fluence’d